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Have you tried feeding her later in the evening? Do you leave dry food out during the night for you cat to eat if it gets hungry? It might help.

My cats have done the same. My younger girl is still fond of it and my older cat has mellowed. I have told them to go back to sleep. I don't give them what they want or they'll think this is okay behavior to get what they want. I also don't feed them in the AM anymore because they think breakfast should be earlier and earlier each day.

The older kitty doesn't do it very often so I'll get up and check on her to make sure everything is alright with her. She has health issues. I don't scold them or anything like that. I want them to wake me up if something is wrong but I don't give them more than a couple little pets and I don't play with them or give them more food if they've run out.

One of the things I did with my older cat years ago that really helped her bad behavior is that I stopped feeding her dinner before I ate mine. She was so mad about it at first she stopped eating dinner for a little while. She still asks to be fed while I'm cooking dinner but I make her wait. The point of this is to establish that you're the alpha member of the family so they'll follow your lead. You can even pretend to take a bit of their food before giving it to them so it establishes even more that you're in charge. Your behaviorist probably already told you all this but it works in time.

You'll have to be patient because it takes them a while to learn that they're not going to get played with, food or much attention in the middle of the night. Establishing yourself as the alpha works for both dogs and cats. Your young cat is just feeling nocturnal and can't help wanting to be up in the middle of the night. It will take your cat some time to figure out that you're not even slightly nocturnal.