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Yesterday was the best birthday ever!

Me & My Sisters - 1967
Yesterday was my birthday and in the evening I received a phone call from a cell number I did not recognize. It ended up being my oldest sister calling to wish me a happy birthday! We have not spoken in 16 years since my mother passed away. Shortly after, my sister moved away to Arizona (I heard thru the grapevine) and I never saw or heard from her again ...until yesterday!

My mother's illness took a toll on all of us and we all were pretty distraught for years. Distance was needed to grieve and heal but then over time, it just became harder and harder to make that step to talk again. I would search the internet looking for her and it is amazing how many people have her same name!

Life is short and I am so grateful to have my sister back in my life ...I have missed her dearly!

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Kaytee
Posted by Kaytee (AshleyPooh21)
4 months ago
Happy Belated Birthday :)
I am glad you sister contacted you. I wish my family could work out their issues. But I do not ever see that happening.

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
3 months ago
Thank you, Kaytee and hang in there, you never know what the future holds. Heck, it took my sister and I 16 years!

Kaytee
Posted by Kaytee (AshleyPooh21)
3 months ago
Thank you :)

Paige
Posted by Paige (Paiges)
4 months ago
OH and Happy Birthday!

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
3 months ago
Thank you :)

Paige
Posted by Paige (Paiges)
4 months ago
I can't think of a better birthday present than that! I hope you can stay connected..life is too short and I have learned that family is irreplaceable!

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
3 months ago
It was quite the surprise, I am still reeling from it! I will give a few more days to all sink in and then I will give her a call and just say hi sis, whatcha doin'?

Kelly
Posted by Kelly (nitewisp)
4 months ago
What a wonderful birthday present! Its great that your sister reached out to you. Happy Belated Birthday to a fellow Leo!

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
3 months ago
Thanks! It's been quite a memorable birthday! It started when I got home from work Friday night and my daughter had a warmed brownie on the table with whip cream and a cherry and sprinkles ...I knew right then this was going to be a special weekend!

Kelly
Posted by Kelly (nitewisp)
3 months ago
What more could you ask for?! ;-)

arleen z.
Posted by arleen z. (arleen14)
4 months ago
I am really so happy for you , The same thing happened with my family after my mother passed ,your right life is to short HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY

Carol L.
Posted by Carol L. (langsford)
4 months ago
This is the best gift you could possible receive, I have a similar relationship with my sister but it was mother's illness that brought us back to talking again. Life is way to short ...
Happy Belated Birthday Denise

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
4 months ago
Thank you, Carol! We talked for hours and it was like old times! I could not have asked for anything better!

Carol L.
Posted by Carol L. (langsford)
4 months ago
I am so very happy for you Denise - that must have made you feel so great -

Lynn
Posted by Lynn (azcrazygirl)
4 months ago
Denise, first Happy Birthday my friend!! I am so happy to see you here....I'm glad your sister called and you were able to talk to her....I seldom hear from either of my sisters...I hope you and your sister will continue to stay in touch....

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
4 months ago
Thank you, Lynn! I was thinking the same thing tonight ...I hope we don't lose touch ever again!

Life is slowing down somewhat here, I have planted all the flowers I have room for so until construction starts on our patio, looks like I will be able to have more time to be back on zootoo regularly again :) I have so missed all my friends!

Lynn
Posted by Lynn (azcrazygirl)
4 months ago
I've missed you too

N. Cathy S.
Posted by N. Cathy S. (stevecat511)
4 months ago
Happy belated birthday! It is wonderful that you and your sister have spoken after all those years. You are right! Life is just too short!

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
4 months ago
Thank you! It was the best surprise imaginable! We talked for hours ...until cell phones went dead :)

jackie
Posted by jackie (doogzo7)
4 months ago
happy belated birthday

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
4 months ago
Thank you! It was a great birthday!

Cheryle D.
Posted by Cheryle D. (1Westie)
4 months ago
Denise, what a wonderful present! Belated Happy Birthday.

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
4 months ago
Thank you, Cheryle! I could not have asked for anything better!

kavykeeper
Posted by kavykeeper
4 months ago
Denise, that's wonderful!

Denise T.
Posted by Denise T. (ddt0725)
4 months ago
Thank you! It was quite the shock! Her new husband talked her into finally taking the step to call. I have never met him but I owe him big time!

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