I am an ICU nurse, and see families and pateints dealing with horrible illness, and end of life decsions everyday. But since I have turned 40, it has really hit home for me... that life is oooo extremely short and all of the tigns that I want to do inthe future, are things I should do today. Life changes in a nanosecond so say what it is you need to say, go sleep at night knowing you made a difference in someones life and tell peoplo in your lives how much you apprecaite them.