7:23pm

I'm going to prison!!

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Yes, that is right. I am going to prison and serving 90. That would be 90 minutes and then out.

George always has a fit when I say things like "heading to prison and doing time". And folks will just look at me "what".

By "going to prison", I am talking about our humane society's prison program. It is called the Fresh Start Canine Program. It is where inmates foster some of our dogs, teach them basic commands and work on housebreaking.

I am now going on every tuesday for a while. The prison staff person who is in charge of the prison side of the program is out for a while. So I have to go in and make sure the handlers are doing their job of fostering/training correctly. No, I am not a professional trainer. I know how to train my personal dogs to do what I want.

With that said, I am now worried about my second class which is tuesday. My first one, I made one "error" and the guys questioned me on it. You see, they use head halters/gentle leaders for training. I got the prison to switch to them. I did that because I know how to train using a choker chain. I learned how. Yet when the handlers at the prison were using choker chains, they were not using them properly and I had a fit. So I got them to use head halters/gentle leaders.

My "error" was when I went to correct a dog and I started to "pop" the dog which when you use a choker chain, it makes a noise if done proper. That noise gets the dog to stop and listen. The "pop" should never ever cause a choke on the dog. (Remember, I know how to use a choker). Well, you can not "pop" using a halti. And let me tell you, they all asked what I had tried to do. I was caught.

I then explained that I have never really trained using a head halter. I had one with Loki, my first dog, who I had taught so many things to, but could never get the dog to heel. The head halter came out and I purchased it. It was the first time I had ever walked Loki and Freya and did not have my arm pulled out of the socket. So that was all I had ever really used the head halter for was for walking Loki.

Now, I have to go back in on tuesday and train some more and look like I know what I am doing using a head halter/gentle leader. I am lucky that a DVD comes with the purchase of a gentle leader. So I will be learning all I can by tuesday on how to proper training using a gentle leader/halti.

On a separate note, I was asked this weekend if I get upset or nervous about going into the prison. I said yes and no. Yes because there are inmates in the prison that I don't deal with as they are not part of the program. I don't know anything about them and I don't want to.

And no I don't get nervous around the dog handlers. I don't ask why my dog handlers are in prison. I don't want to know. I already know that the prison has screened them to make sure they can be handlers. I just want to treat them like all the other foster folks. I want them to treat that animal with the love and respect that it deserves. In return, I will give them respect.

I laugh with the handlers and joke. I can also be very serious and yell. But the one thing that makes how I treat them to the way they get treated by prison staff, I try and be a friend.

Some of the inmates do not get any visitors. So when I come in, I sometimes get nervous if several of them "swarm" me. But I have learned that it is not an attack on me. It is because they want attention that is positive. They want to be reassured that they are making a difference by being in this program.

Several of the handlers really want to learn anything and everything about canines. They will request books to read or different training material. Some what to work in shelters, kennels, vet offices helping to clean kennels and care for the animals. Some want to go on and train dogs. Some want to get into vet tech school and learn more.

I have helped several of the handlers once they got out. I helped one get a job as a trainer at a Petco in New York, then he moved on to a better paying job training dogs for security/guard work. (yea, kind of funny when you think about it). I help one start his own rescue. He wanted to pull one or two dogs, train them and then adopt them out. No shelter was willing to work with him in the area where he lived. I placed several calls and now he has helped in saving several dogs a year. Yea, he is one person doing what he can for the animals.

I personally like knowing that I might be able to turn even one of these guys around to help better the world of animals once they get out. And also make the handler a better person.

Yes, I know they did something bad to get in to start with. A few of them I have learned did stupid things like "steal the mayor's car, went for a joy ride, then a car chase, to a wreck", "needed extra funds to pay bills, repaid replaced it as quickly as possible, but one time got caught". I am sure some are in for other reasons, but again, I don't want to know.

There have been several who on the day they got out of prison would meet me at the shelter. And on that day I give them a hug. There is no physical contact at the prison. I am not even suppose to shake hands. Sometimes, I forget and do. But on the day they get out, I usually cry as they are the ones who really put forth the work to better themselves along with helping the animals. I cry because I have lost a good dog handler. But yet, I know I have a friend if I need one. Just as I am a friend to them if they need me.

As a matter of fact, I have four cell numbers programmed into my cell phone that are former dog handlers at the prison. I let them know if they get upset, happy, whatever, I want them to call me. I want them to know that "just because the fence and barb wire is not there, that I still am".

I want to help the animals at our shelter. And without the prison program where about 40 or more dogs live on a daily bases, our humane society would not be able to save as many as we do. And without the inmates deciding they want to help in saving lives of the animals, there would be no Fresh Start Canine Program.

So yes, I am going to prison on tuesday just after breakfast, but I will be out in time for lunch. And who knows, maybe I will make one more friend while I am there.



Discussion

28 comments found.
cubbysmom
cubbysmom
2 months ago
You are a beautiful person. No, not all of them are bad. So you keep going to prison and keep saving the lives of our precious little ones. God Bless You.

fran m.
fran m. (Bichons9)
2 months ago
My heart feels better after reading this!!!

KayNYC
KayNYC
2 months ago
What an inspiring blog entry. Keep up all your good work. I am sure the program means as much to the animals it saves as the inmates who are getting positive reinforcement for their good deeds.

Joette B.
Joette B. (joettem)
2 months ago
Where do you find enough time in a day? I think we need to start addressing you as Saint Betty...you deserve it! You certainly are a saint to the many animals fortunate enough to be around you.

Sometimes I wonder where the time goes and I still get most of it done.

That is an amazing program! I bet that really helps...there are horse programs that use horses for behavioral modification...kind of the same thing?

Betty, you are a special person!

Carrie R.
Carrie R. (croe)
2 months ago
Betty - sounds both challenging and very fun. Rewarding I'm sure. what a great resource for your area and animals.

Carrie

I saw a program on TV about that. It was awesome. I saw another about troubled youths caring for injured or neglected animals of all kinds. It not only helps the animals, but the inmates get a lesson in caring for living creatures. I thinks it really changes some troubled people. Way to go Betty.

Cici H.
Cici H. (cicihogge)
2 months ago
Wow i thought you were really being serious about going to prison!

Yea, it really is a prison. But just not staying for long.

One of the things I did not mention in the journal was that we also have an orphan kitten program. Kittens under 2 pounds can go to prison and the inmates will take care of them. I currently have 6 cells with total of 12 kittens handlers. They will even bottle feed the kittens.

I had an inmate come up to me over 3 years ago. He asked me if they could get kittens in cause he was a cat person, not a dog person. The next week a litter of kittens that were like 5 days old came in. I called the prison staff person and asked. They said to bring them over. One kitten made it out of the litter. We had no clue as to how long they had been without mom.

Then after 8 months, that program was shut down. Our policy with the prison read dogs only. I had never seen a state place get thru red tape so fast.

I had been told that the inmate who asked me about kittens, who helped in get that program started was the kind of inmate who could easily start a riot or problems. Yet, to be in the program, you have to be a role model citizen. During the 6 months for the red tape deal, he stayed a role model. When it got back up and running, he stayed with it.

This past Christmas the kitten handler McNaught, came to me and said that he was so grateful that I was willing to give him that chance way back when. That I did not know one thing about him. I had no judged him yet respected him enough to give him a chance to help the kittens. He told me that I helped in change his attitude. That 3 years ago, I helped him in seeing he can be a better person. He can be responsible, he can be respected, he can give back without just taking it.

McNaught got out of prison in March. He also adopted his last kitten he raised. He came to the shelter to do the paperwork and pick up Tater the kitten. He got out of the car and I hugged him and was crying. I told him that he was the reason we had that kitten program and that it was a success because of him. That he should be proud cause I sure was.

To know you can make a difference in lives of humans and animals is a big deal. I know that. And boy, I love it.

deedee
deedee
2 months ago
This all happens when we're not judgemental of others, no matter what the circumstances are in which we meet them. What I do know is that a true animal lover is a good person underneath the layers of baggage that they may have. Good for you Betty for having that instinct..

Cheryl
Cheryl (cherries33)
2 months ago
It makes me so happy to see something this good going on in the world.

All I can say is that I am very, VERY glad you are at our little shelter here in Madison County, Ohio. Wow, Betty!

I have to say, you had me worried for minute with that title! ^_^ I'v got one word for ya...WHEW! LOL

Richard was right when he said that you were an extraordinary woman....I'm sure you're a major blessing to the dogs as well as the inmates, by giving them both skills that they can use to their benefit. So glad that you're willing to do this..........

Yea, George always has a fit when I say "I'm going to prison" out loud. Usually somebody will hear and ask what is up with that. Of course, then I get to explain which I love to do.

patty
patty (mikkizmom)
2 months ago
Good for you! So many people feel that the prisons are full of hardend criminals are are afraid to be near any of them. As you mentioned some just had "bad luck" and got caught doing something stupid. And as mentioned by the others it's not only beneficial for the dogs but the prisoners as well. Where else can they get
"unconditional" love, just as we do from our furry friends. If it helps even one dog or one prisoner it's worth the effort!

This program helps more than most people will understand. Sometimes I don't even think George my husband completely understand why I love the program so much.

I think this is a great way of teaching the dogs. At first when I heard that the prisions sometimes foster animals I wasn't comfortable but then I realized what they were doing. It is a good thing because these animals do not judge them and know nothing about them. It is good for the prisioners to get some unconditional love they probably never had and the dogs get new friends. It is a great program.

I do love this program more than most of the things I do for the shelter. To me, it is a major win-win for all. And to know that I have helped with this program just makes me happy.

Cheryl
Cheryl (cherries33)
2 months ago
Gee Betty, you're going to be one of my heros (along with Randy Grim & Bill Moyers). I've seen several programs about this and always cry during the whole thing. Some of the guys are hardened criminals and yet they can connect with the dogs and become much better people while helping the dogs and others. How many things do you find in the world that is so inspiring and uplifting ..... that does so much good for everyone involved.

To be listed with those guys makes me proud. Thanks.



What a GREAT and selfless thing to do! I too have heard of the prison programs on TV, and I'm very happy to hear it's more then just one. The prison where this program is allowed, should be commended on doing positive worthwhile work for the public and yet saving lives of our dogs which are better then people in all ways. It sounds like you have many larger dogs that you work with that are over 30 pounds, which I can see that chain collars and head collars must be necessary. I have three small rescue dogs, and when I hear about using chains and head harnesses as training it makes me somewhat uncomfortable. Do you also use positive training methods in the Fresh Start Canine Program? For example, if the dog responds in the way your expecting do you give it a treat or pat on the head - or use voice "good dog"? I'm not trying to sound like a ninny and in any way take away from the EXCELLENT work you all are doing, I just had this question while reading your entry.

Yes, we do use the positive training. It took a long time to get the older handlers to change up and even for me to a point as I am more of a "good dog" praise them kind of trainer.

Some times we do get in a few smaller dogs and there is really only a handful of trainers who like working with the smaller dogs. I had one trainer who had open heart surgery and can only help the smaller dogs as he is not allowed to be pulled by the bigger dogs. The prison tried to kick him out of the program, but the doctors said as long as no dogs over 30 pounds, he will be fine. So I always make sure to save a small one for him.

I've seen quite a few shows on those Prison programs and dog training,and they seem to be very beneficial to both the dogs in training and the prisoners themselves.
You know sometimes people are placed in situations that outcomes are not always positive,and they end up in jail. Not everyone is hardened or life long criminals.These type of people do deserve a second chance,as our shelter animals deserve also,so why not work together and turn a negative experience into a positive one.
This kind of experience may just be enough to turn that person's life,along with that dog's life, around for-ever.
How's Godfrey doing Betty? Did he bust outta jail yet,or have parole coming up soon? lol

One of the hardest things I had to get over was with my dad and his stories. My dad had worked at the prison while I was growing up. He worked in the boiler room as an engineer. He always talked bad abotu most of the inmates. And when I started with the shelter and the prison program, he grilled me that those inmates are worthless humans. He would get so mad if I stood up for even one of them. Yet after a few years and the number of dogs saved because of the prison, Dad changed his mind a little. They all deserve a chance to change.

As for Godfrey, if it is not storming this tuesday the 10th, Hrothgar and I are going to prison after lunch. I really hope it goes well.

Aw, Betty, if you have been able to change your dad's view of the prisoners (even just a little, but probably a lot more than just a little), you've also helped someone very near and dear to you. That's great!

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