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Cat jeleousy

Urgency:Need to know

Category: Behavior & Training

Asked by: kelly g. (javajunkiegrl) 2 months ago

I am fostering a kitten and I have an older 7 yr old cat whom only will hiss at her when she walks by her ( my older cat shows no signs of wanting to hurt/scratch her) so anyhow my older cat wont hang out , instead she's in the bedroom laying under the bed. I want her to come out and be around us all including the foster kitty...my question is that if I do adopt the foster kitty will my older cat eventually grow to take intrest in the kitty? The reason i'm wanting to know is becasue my older cats partner passed away about 7 months ago and they were pals and i would like to find Kally a kitty friend...or is it possible Kally wants to be the one and only kitty.
Thanks for any answers, mucho appreciation.

Answers from Zootooers

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Answered by liagnosnibor 2 months ago

Jealousy is a human emotion. It sounds like they are just communicating in their own language and they need to sort things out for themselves. When they do, their social space will be respected by each other.

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Answered by Michele (MicheleZ) 2 months ago

It sounds like you didn't properly introduce the cat to the kitten. The kitten should have been segregated for a while to give your cat and the kitten an opportunity to become aware of each other's presence, followed by a gradual introduction of the kitten. Usually, with time, the cats come to at least tolerate each other.

Many older cats don't want to be bothered by the kitten and the kitten's high energy. Your cat is telling the kitten to "back off" and leave her alone. (Perhaps you should have given your resident cat more consideration?)

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Answered by vivian k. (VKiggins) 2 months ago

I just adopted my foster..the older cat was not happy..it took about a week and now they are playing. Stick with it!

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Answered by cathy t. (cathleent3) 2 months ago

Maybe you should consider just letting time take care of it. Sooner or later, everyone will relax. You cant force them to be friends, and interfering will just add to the stress...

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Answered by Anonymous 2 months ago

My older cat was like this with my kitten when I first got her a year ago. She was always a cat that would rather be alone than bothered by other cats. She now grooms the younger cat, eats wit her, and even plays with her as shocking as that is (Garfield is her idol therefore playing is not on the priority list but eating is)

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